You always get what you want. The problem is remembering what you want and having the courage to go after it.
Find out what your neighbors favorite color is. You have people all around you that can teach you the things you need to know to get the things you want. Learn from them.
Take someone you wouldn't normally take to lunch today. Reconnect to the human in humanity.
Give yourself a hug and say “I love myself” The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.
Find out how they know they are loved. Everyone shows and needs to be shown love. Each person may like something different from your style.
Make an appointment to do something they enjoy doing.